Move generator status setting to common place

Everywhere but in Meta, where we want to allow adding arbitrary information

Per #883 diquarks are treated as stable by geant4 but they can have nominally non-zero travel times inside an event graph and should be explicitly rejected.

refactor the way rejectPDGs and leptonPDGs are passed through the reading of primary particles

Adapt to the new way the rangeCut is added

with the additional range cut parameter created Physics Helper object
the DD4hepSimulation physicsList attribute is now deprecated, use physics.list instead
The default value for the rangecut is the one from geant4 10.1: 700 micron